Wednesday, October 2, 2024

The Mysterious Grave of XYZ

 I found this grave while doing a google search and came upon this article titled: 11 Remarkable Graves with Incredible Back Stories. 


 This gravestone is located in the Fountain Hill Cemetery in Deep River, Connecticut. Nobody knows who exactly XYZ is/was but there is a story behind it. The story goes that a bank robber was shot and killed while trying to rob a bank in Deep River. Nobody knew him and he had no ID on him so the town buried him in a donated plot near the railroad tracks. I can imagine this was in or the start of the Fountain Hill Cemetery. After the man's burial, an anonymous letter requested that the grave be marked XYZ-- and so they did it.

The story continues with a woman who would visit the grave every year- she would come via train, wouldn't talk to anyone and would either leave a rose or a flower wreath. The lady would be known as the "Lady in Black" because she would always wear black while visiting the grave. 

So many questions pop into my head when thinking about this folktale. Who was the woman in black or did she even exist? Was she the man's wife or lover or sister or mother? Did she write the letter requesting the grave to be marked XYZ? Why did the letter request the letters XYZ? What did they represent? Was it an initials?

What do you think of this gravestone and the folklore behind it? Comment below.


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Tuesday, October 1, 2024

Genealogy Bucket-List Locations, Part 4

Mendenhall Cemetery in Yorkshire, Ohio



 One of the things I would love to do in my lifetime is to visit all of my known direct ancestors gravesites. A lot of the more recent ancestors are buried in Dayton, Ohio in the Calvary Cemetery. My 5th Great-Grandfather, however, is not buried there. 

Richard Mendenhall was born on 14 Nov 1794 in Guilford County, North Carolina. He moved to Ohio where most of my recent and myself are from. He passed away on 25 April 1871 in Darke County, Ohio at the age of 76. Richard is buried in the Mendenhall Cemetery in Yorkshire, Darke County, Ohio. I'm not sure if this cemetery is named after him or one of his relatives.




There are a total of 28 matching records for the surname of Mendenhall on Findagrave.com for this cemetery...let's see how many are in my tree:

  1. Aaron Mendenhall (1828-1894)- 4th Great-Grandfather
  2. Allen Mendenhall (1846-1871)- 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  3. Antony Mendenhall (1847-1870)- 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  4. Benjamin Mendenhall (1848-1895)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  5. Catharine Brown Mendenhall (1858-1910)- wife of 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  6. Charles E. Mendenhall (1838-1882)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  7. Christena Speelman Mendenhall (1835-1920)- 4th great-grandmother
  8. Elizabeth Mendenhall (1850-1855)- 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  9. James P. Mendenhall (1841-1853)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  10. John W. Mendenhall (1877-1894)- 3rd great-granduncle
  11. Levi Mendenhall (1834-1861)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  12. Mary Elizabeth Goslee Mendenhall (1859-1917)- wife of 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  13. Olive Pearson Mendenhall (1799-1870)- 5th great-grandaunt
  14. Rebecca Davidson Mendenhall (1823-1891)- 4th great-grandaunt
  15. Richard Mendenhall (1828-1852)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  16. Richard Mendenhall (1794-1871)- 5th Great-Grandfather
  17. Robert Mendenhall (1822-1875)- 4th great-granduncle
  18. Robert E. Mendenhall (1857-1917)- 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  19. Sarah Mendenhall (1830-1856)- 4th great-grandaunt
  20. Sarah Pearson Mendenhall (1795-1866)- 5th great-grandmother
  21. Sarah A. Mendenhall (1829-1849)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  22. Sarah J. Mendenhall (1849-1869)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  23. Serepta York Mendenhall (1844-1872)- wife of 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  24. Thomas Mendenhall (1796-1865)- 5th great-granduncle
  25. Thomas Mendenhall (1853-1910)- 1st cousin, 5x removed 
  26. Thomas E. Mendenhall (1837-1851)- 1st cousin, 6x removed 
  27. Wayne Mendenhall (1886-1888)- 2nd cousin, 4x removed 
  28. William Rosecrans Mendenhall (1863-1899)- 1st cousin, 5x removed 

So, I suppose I have 28 reasons to visit this cemetery! 

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